The Only Homemade Birthday Cake Recipe You'll Ever Need

But nowadays thanks to Instagram and Pinterest the stakes are insanely high for a “homemade” birthday cake. It appears that a cake just isn’t a cake unless it’s six layers high, draped with pastel fondant and dotted with gum paste peonies.

I say, let’s get back to basics, people, because this type of pressure can strike terror in the hearts and minds of any novice baker and frankly can take all the fun out of a homemade cake.

As a child, I was lucky enough to grow up in a home that treasured homemade birthday cakes. By today’s standards, these cakes were not “Pin-worthy” or “Instagrammable” but they were made with so much love that looking back on them now, there’s a great charm in these cakes. Sometimes they were several layers high and sometimes they were just one layer, but they were always “handsomely decorated” in a lets-put-some-effort-into-this kind of way. In fact, the decorations were the best part; an amusing detail of my childhood I like to rib my parents about now.

For example, there were always lots of jellybeans gracing the top of my cakes. Ironically, my birthday is in January, which is quite a stretch from Easter. This always makes me laugh as I pepper my mom with questions about where these jellybeans actually came from. Have you ever tried to buy a jellybean in January?

Or there was the year that little red hot candies dotted the side of my cake spelling out the number three. Looking back, I have to admire the boldness of my parents to offer up such “candy heat” to a 3-year-old? Could this be the reason why I like Sriracha so much?

And of course, there were “The Candles." These candles were not exactly of the “birthday candle variety” but rather the “dinner table variety” or those emergency candles you typically see in disaster relief kits.

You should know something about my parents. They are “resourceful types” who always taught me to make something from nothing. So it’s no surprise that these curious candles should appear. I can just imagine my mother saying “Oh darn I forgot to buy the birthday candles again” only for my Dad to reply, “Oh please, we’ve got these candles, these are great! And they’re more elegant too. OK, dim the lights”.

So if you have someone special in your life whose birthday is approaching, consider making them a homemade cake. My Classic Chocolate Birthday Cake Recipe is as easy as it gets. It’s a flopsy mopsy, “imperfectly perfect” sort of cake that you can dress up or down. Heck, you can even skip the layering all together and bake it in a 9x14 Pyrex casserole dish, smear the frosting on top and call it a day. It’s so divinely delicious no one will even care about the presentation. And remember that’s not what a homemade cake is all about anyway. Its sole purpose is to remind those we care about most that they are truly loved, cherished and cared for, in a way that no store-bought cake can convey. And besides nothing says “I love You” more than a homemade baked good.

So drag out the bowls, measuring cups and spoons and embrace the homemade cake with all its homemade imperfections. It’s never the presentation that counts but the gesture that remains (jellybeans optional).

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